by Abigail Van Buren
DEAR ABBY: half a year ago, i obtained straight back in touch with a youth buddy whom married at 17 and moved away. She’s got a lot of family members drama, a lot of it brought on by her alcoholism (which she claims is really results of PTSD).
Recently, she said We have hurt her and I also’m an awful buddy because since we have reconnected, i’ve never ever once asked her about her past plus the ordeals she actually is experienced. Abby, she covers by by herself constantly. We never thought it absolutely was required to ask her concerning the past because she never ever shuts up about this. I’ve attempted to be good listener, but I do not think she’s made the most readily useful life alternatives, and I wouldn’t like to confront her with my views on what she’s got all messed up her life. 继续阅读Buddy Takes Offense at Never Being Inquired About Her Past